Finding Balance: Supporting Young Adults During the Holiday Season
Jessica Fowler, CADC, CPS
MindWELL Associate Director
The holiday season is often a time of joy and celebration, but it can also present challenges for young adults returning home from school or work. Navigating family dynamics, social pressures, and expectations can have an impact on their mental wellness.
SAMHSA’s 8 Dimensions of Wellness provides a holistic framework to support their well-being during this festive time—and it can be beneficial year-round, too.
Emotional Wellness
When young adults return home, they may experience mixed feelings of both excitement and anxiety. Creating an environment where they feel comfortable expressing their emotions is important. Encourage creative outlets such as art, music, or journaling to help them process their feelings. It is important not to be too pushy – instead, encourage them to share and have open conversations about feelings.
Social Wellness
Building and maintaining healthy relationships is important throughout life. During the holiday, plan family activities that can help strengthen bonds such as outings together or board game nights. Encourage young adults to stay in touch with friends, even if they’re not local. Being away from friends, peer groups, or communities may cause young people to experience loneliness, so remind them to connect through social media, phone calls, or text messages. Give them opportunities to spend time with local friends and family but allow them to also set personal boundaries: let them know they are not obligated to attend every gathering while home. Allow them time to rest and reset.
Occupational Wellness
The holidays can also bring increased career-related stress for young adults, especially those who are searching for work or adjusting to a new role. Encourage them to set aside time for job-related tasks and activities while leaving room for self-care and relaxation. Open conversations about feelings around work or job hunting can also provide support and guidance, which decreases stress and anxiety.
Intellectual Wellness
Participating in activities that work the brain is important. Connect and work the brain by organizing family activities such as trivia nights, puzzles, crossword tournaments, book chats, or movie marathons. Exploring new interests or hobbies with our young adults can help foster lifelong learning, create cherished memories, and even establish new traditions.
Spiritual Wellness
The holiday season can also be a time to reflect on personal beliefs and values. Invite young adults to participate in family traditions that resonate with them, but leave room for their own personal development and journey. This balance can maintain connections between family and traditions while allowing for individual growth. Find opportunities to volunteer during the holiday season – this helps young people develop a stronger sense of purpose and strengthen spiritual wellness. Volunteering is also a way for families to spend time together while giving back to their community.
Physical Wellness
Maintaining a healthy lifestyle can be challenging for some during the holiday season. Support young adults by encouraging them to exercise regularly and make healthy, nutritious meal choices. Try sharing resources like My Plate for Young Adults, which shares user-friendly, affordable recipes, cooking basics, and healthy tips geared towards young adults. Remember to maintain balance – every meal won’t be perfectly nutritious but focus on making healthier choices and enjoying time gathering and celebrating. Try going on family walks, doing outdoor activities, or cooking meals and desserts together. This can have a positive impact on mood and energy levels for the whole family.
Environmental Wellness
Creating a calming home environment is important for mental wellness, especially during a season full of hustle and bustle. Keeping shared spaces organized and peaceful can make a big impact on everyone, including young people. Create a sense of belonging and support well-being by involving young adults in home projects such as decorating, baking, or raking leaves. Encourage them to spend time outdoors by enjoying a winter walk or engaging in other outdoor activities. This gives them a chance to soak up some vitamin D, strengthen their relationship to nature, and reduce stress.
Financial Wellness
The holidays can often lead to financial stress for some, especially young adults starting out their independent lives. Try having a conversation about budgeting. This can help ease this stress that some young people may experience during holiday times. Encourage thoughtful and sentimental gift-giving that focuses on experiences rather than material items that can come with a big price tag. Remind them that sentimental gifting fosters meaningful connections, makes cherished memories, and reduces the pressure of holiday spending.
By incorporating the 8 Dimensions of Wellness into your family routine during the holidays, caregivers can create an atmosphere that prioritizes young adults’ mental wellness. Imagine it as a festive recipe for connection: blend open conversations, engaging family activities, relaxing downtime, and a sprinkle of respect for everyone’s unique needs. This approach not only puts mental wellness at the forefront but also creates a joyful opportunity to celebrate the season together!
Featured Program: Dimensions of Wellness
As adults, we spend a lot of time caring for our children or others, and sometimes we forget our own self-care. Dimensions of Wellness will empower participants to explore the positives and negatives of stress and the effects ongoing stress can have on their mental, physical, and emotional health.
Participants will have an opportunity to explore self-care strategies and develop a plan to develop a wellness routine. During the discussion, we will also cover how stress affects youth, including tips on increasing mental wellness, promoting coping strategies, and building resilience.
Program Participants: Adults
Program Length: 90 minutes
References/ Citations:
Ahriza. (2021, December 12). notMYkid. NotMYkid® – Educate Inspire Grow. https://notmykid.org/holiday-self-care-and-the-eight-dimensions-of-wellness/
Highlighting the 8 Dimensions of Wellness. (2022, August 1). Compass Health. https://www.compasshealth.org/highlighting-the-8-dimensions-of-wellness/
SAMHSA. (2016). CREATING A HEALTHIER LIFE A STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE TO WELLNESS. https://store.samhsa.gov/sites/default/files/sma16-4958.pdf
SAMHSA. “The Eight Dimensions of Wellness.” Www.youtube.com, 1 July 2016, www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDzQdRvLAfM.
If you know a young person that is experiencing a mental health challenge or crisis remind them there is hope and support out there. 988 is a free confidential line that people can call or text when they need someone to listen.
Si un joven está pasando por una crisis, recuérdale que hay esperanza. El 988 está aquí para ayudar hoy y siempre.