Growing Strong: Helping Children Thrive Using the 8 Dimensions of Wellness

Growing Strong: Helping Children Thrive Using the 8 Dimensions of Wellness

Virginia Johnson
Substance Use Prevention Senior Director
Poe Center for Health Education

Jessica Fowler, MS, CPS
MindWELL Associate Director
Poe Center for Health Education

As parents and caregivers, we want children to grow into healthy, confident, and resilient adults. One of the most powerful gifts adults can give children is the tools they need to increase their resilience and wellness.

There are eight dimensions of wellness that can be used as a map to guide your focus: physical, emotional, social, mental/intellectual, financial, occupational, environmental, and spiritual wellness.

As you focus on these dimensions, remember that wellness is not about being perfect. It is about learning balance, connection, and healthy coping. When families practice well-rounded wellness together, children develop habits that support lifelong health and happiness.

Teaching these skills doesn’t require extra classes or complicated lessons. You can weave the dimensions of wellness into everyday family routines.

Begin with weekly family check-ins by asking broad questions. Try asking:

“What helped your body feel good this week?”
“How did you help someone this week?”
“What made you feel proud or happy?”

Over time, family members will become more accustomed to asking and answering these broad questions. Your family can use the following tips to hone in on the eight dimensions of wellness together.


Physical Wellness

Promote physical wellness by moving, eating, and resting together through family walks, impromptu dance parties, stretching before bed, playing outside, cooking together, playing a sport, or riding bikes.

Try having a “Rainbow Meal” night by preparing foods filled with a “rainbow” of colorful produce, emphasizing the vitamins and nutrients in each fruit or veggie. Incorporating these activities helps children learn that caring for their bodies feels good.

Emotional Wellness

Help children increase their emotional wellness by talking about emotions, using a feelings chart, sharing highs and lows about each day at dinner, and practicing a new feeling word each week to build emotional vocabulary.

It is also important to open an honest dialogue and ask each other about both strengths and areas for improvement. When children feel their bodies becoming stressed, try suggesting a quick “reset” that will increase a child’s ability to bounce back.

Some resets include simple tasks such as:

    • Taking a sip of water.
    • Counting backward.
    • Naming six colors in the room.
    • 5-4-3-2-1 grounding using the senses.

Social Wellness

Promote social wellness by strengthening relationships and building connections through gathering for family game nights, watching a favorite movie together, doing puzzles together, and having playdates with friends.

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Mental and Intellectual Wellness

Support mental and intellectual wellness by learning and growing together with visits to libraries, museums, and parks.

Try playing new games, working on a puzzle, having healthy debates that look at different perspectives, or experimenting with new hobbies. Learning together builds confidence and curiosity.

Spiritual Wellness

Spiritual wellness centers around meaning, purpose, and a sense of balance. Try to foster spiritual wellness by creating a gratitude jar, sharing one thing each person is thankful for before bed, or talking about shared family values.

Occupational Wellness

Foster a sense of occupational wellness by participating in activities that provide meaning and purpose to your children’s lives. This may include volunteering together, doing random acts of kindness, or helping with chores. These conversations and activities help children feel grounded and purposeful.

Environmental Wellness

Help children increase their environmental wellness by teaching them to care for their space. Some ideas include creating a calm corner in the home, composting together, recycling, and organizing as a family. Through these practices, children learn responsibility and teamwork.

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Financial Wellness

An important facet of every child’s life is financial wellness. A sense of satisfaction with current financial situations can have an impact on overall wellness. Support your children’s financial wellness by teaching them how to pay for something at the store. Or, give children the task of creating a budget for an activity, meal, or toy.


As you implement the eight dimensions of wellness in your life and in your family’s routines, be sure to include room for self-care.

Remember, self-care is not selfish. Children learn self-care by watching adults, and they model their activity after you. When adults practice kindness toward themselves, this act teaches children to do the same. Small steps can make a big difference.

Wellness does not require perfection. It requires intention and consistency.


Sources

  1. Chen, S. (2018). Give Yourself a Break: The Power of Self-Compassion. Harvard Business Review, 116-123. Give Yourself a Break: The Power of Self-Compassion.
  2. Creating A Healthier Life A Step-By-Step Guide to Wellness. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. Retrieved July 11, 2023, Creating A Healthier Life A Step-By-Step Guide to Wellness.


The Impact of Youth Empowerment

The Impact of Youth Empowerment

Virginia Johnson
Substance Use Prevention Senior Director
Poe Center for Health Education

As parents, we want our teens to feel confident, capable, and connected—to believe that their voices matter and that they can make a positive difference in the world around them. Youth empowerment programs help make that possible by giving young people meaningful opportunities to learn, lead, and take action alongside supportive adults.

Youth empowerment isn’t just about leadership and public speaking. It’s about helping teens build confidence, develop skills, form healthy relationships, and discover that their ideas and perspectives truly matter.

What is a Youth Empowerment Program?

Youth empowerment programs provide a vehicle for teens to positively influence their communities. As Ayush Avaiya, a 10th grader, shared, “Youth empowerment is a way to be influential to our community and grow personally alongside it.”

Many teens feel unsure or nervous at first when joining a Youth Empowerment team. Ayush described feeling hesitant when he initially joined, but over time—and through participating in meetings, events, and preparing for the Youth-Led Tobacco-Free Community Forum—he realized the impact youth can have when they work together. Through youth empowerment, he gained skills in “public speaking, communication, message delivery, and, most importantly, teamwork.”

Youth Empowerment Poe Center Tobacco-Free Forum

Building Confidence Through Purpose and Belonging

For many teens, involvement in a youth empowerment program provides something essential: a sense of belonging and purpose. Shreena Patel, a 9th grader, joined because she noticed young people in her community struggling with mental health, confidence, and issues such as vaping and self-harm.

Friend doing a collective handshake to raise a cheet

Shreena explained, “Being a part of a team makes you a lot more confident, teaches new things, and shows how I can help my community.” Through volunteering to teach younger children about traffic and road safety at PoeFest, Shreena strengthened her communication skills and learned that empowerment also means helping others learn and grow. “It helps to know that I can make a difference with the youth empowerment team because we all help each other out.”

Speaking Up and Being Heard

Youth empowerment programs support teens in expressing their ideas and advocating for change. Uma Kuncha, an 11th grader, described youth empowerment as “a unique opportunity that serves as an avenue for youth advocacy and education regarding numerous community issues.”

Motivated by opportunities such as the Youth-Led Tobacco-Free Community Forum, speaking on panels, and advocating for policy change, Uma joined to promote positive substance use prevention efforts. Through completing Photovoice projects and public speaking, she gained confidence and learned the power of teamwork. “It is incredibly rewarding to be a part of a team of passionate peers who encourage each other and share my same interests, striving for a better community.”

Similarly, Ajani Doss, a 9th grader, shared that youth empowerment gives young people “strength and hope” and “encourages them to share their voices and fix problems they notice in their communities.” Even after joining just this year, Ajani states he is learning how to choose effective tools for change and sharpening his ability to articulate ideas.

Real‑World Experiences That Make a Lasting Impact

Youth empowerment creates meaningful, real‑world experiences that teens carry with them into adulthood. Yashasvi Saxena, a 10th grader, described youth empowerment as “joining a group of teens who are committed to making a real impact.”

One of Yashasvi’s favorite moments was speaking at a Raleigh City Council meeting about a proposed tobacco‑free ordinance. “Having the chance to address an issue I see every day at my school and in my community was an incredible opportunity,” she shared. That experience strengthened her public speaking skills and gave her firsthand experience engaging with local leaders.

Strong youth empowerment programs don’t happen by accident. They succeed through intentional partnerships between youth and adults that create an atmosphere where young people feel supported and empowered to share their stories and ideas. When youth understand expectations and serve as key leaders in decision-making, they are more engaged and confident.

Strong youth empowerment programs:

    • Increase confidence and communication skills,
    • Strengthen leadership and teamwork abilities,
    • Feel connected to peers and their community, and
    • Advocate for themselves and their communities.

When young people are supported, heard, and trusted, incredible things happen.


Resources:

  1. Hart, R. A. (1992). Children’s participation: From tokenism to citizenship (Innocenti Essay No. 4). International Child Development Centre.
  2. Olsen, P. (2010). Adult 4-H volunteer empowerment in 4-H youth development settings (Doctoral dissertation, Oregon State University). ProQuest LLC. Adult 4-H volunteer empowerment in 4-H youth development settings.
  3. Youth Empowerment Solutions. (2020). Tip sheet #1: Teacher’s guide to success. University of Michigan School of Public Health. Youth Empowerment Solutions.